hi there! popping in from my usual board.
i had a planned C/S last tues and i have been so glad i opted for the c/s. My first left me with a TERRIBLE recovery period after tearing really bad as well as the episiotomy. This as well as the fact that she had a slight shoulder distosia and this baby was measuring big as well are what led us to this decision.
I've been up and about the house doing well all week..except i have a wonderful one year old who isnt getting her mommy time. she's walking and climbing but has no idea why mommy cant pick her up or let her crawl on me. tomorrow my constant help will be gone and i'll have about 2 hours in the afternoon where its just me. i know i cant lift her yet but i was wondering if anyone else had a similar experience and how you handled having such a young one while recovering from your surgery