So today I found out a friend just gave birth. This is her SECOND birth in the time we've been ttc (she was early in her 2nd trimester when we started). I cried my eyes out. That probably makes the 6th kid among my friends that were not only conceived but also born during our time ttc. It makes me so sad to think that a process that takes 10 months has been completed several times while we have nothing and may never have anything. And then this same friend who just gave birth claims she knows what I feel like to be IF b/c her first pg she took Clomid to ovulate, but in total she had only spent 7 months ttc for the first pg w/ only 2 cycles on Clomid/BD. She never even came close to having somebody conceive then give birth before she conceived let alone have someone give birth twice!
I'm just so sad and a little bit angry at everyone who doesn't understand.
Thanks for the vent.
TTC since Feb '09
Unexplained Infertility: SA Sept '09 ok slightly low vol, but not enough to cause IF; B/W Feb '10 ok, HSG Feb '10 ok; Lap Mar '10 - mild endo on outside of right tube/uterus removed but not considered enough to cause IF
July '10 - IUI #1 w/ 50mg Clomid, prometrium / 2 follies on R = BFN
August '10 - IUI #2 w/ 50mg Clomid, prometrium / 1 follie on R