Hi Ladies Its been a few weeks but I am back and still a bit confused. Do you feel damaged and Ugly still?? I do after being SA by my father at about age 4, I finally dealt with and confronted him during a therapy session about 8 years ago. It helped tremendously I actually forgave him and I have let him back into my life. Its odd I forgave but can never forget. He apologized at the therapy session and it was amazing how different I felt afterwards like a weight had been lifted that he actually admitted acknowledged and and apologized.