Christmas should of been the best day of the year kids dd25 and ds17 were both here and it started out great then h got upset with d for something so stupid and immature and cuz he was upset with her she got upset with him and things went downhill from there. H decided he wasn't going to eat dinner with us but son finally got him to come out of room. We ate but it was not a fun meal I took dd home a while later and h acted all mad cuz she left so early don't know what he expects but it sure made for an emotional day for me. I always try to make everything great for everyone on holidays and it always turns out like crap and Im the one left picking up the pieces with all I can do to not cry. Why can't we just be a normal family.