I never meant to imply any negativity toward a simple situation. I was only trying to be practical from my point of view. Please stay with us. I am sure noone meant to be actually mean, it must have just struck a sensitive chord amongst some of the other posters.
Please, again, if I in some way was offensive in my original reponse, I apologize profusely. I was mad when I posted my second response because of the suggestion that I was discriminating against my daughters for the sake of some man's views.
I am sure, like everyone else here, we all make decisions on what is best for our children and they are our first priority.
Let's try again. We are all in this together after all.