Hi, I am new here. My husband and I have been married 9 years. We tried unsuccessfully to get pregnant for over three years, had initial fertility testing done and no actual fertility problems were found. In stead of going through all the traditional fertility gamit we decided to adopt. After two years we adopted an older child. She is a special needs child and has a multitude of issues (12 yrs old with mental health issues as well as major abuse issues) some of which may make the adoption ultimately disrupt.. I am 40, my husband is 53 with a multiple list of health problems. We have decided to give conception one last try. Is there anyone out there who can share any hope or suggestions to make this successful. I am healthy with regular cycle but am considered obese. My husband has diabetes, high blood pressure and has some problems due to medications of impotence. Any comments would be appreciated.