Hi everyone! I am so excited to see all the BFPs, especially the old-timers with #1!!
Long story short, I was married to a guy with a vasectomy. It wasn't reversible and I didn't think he was a good dad anyway. About 1 1/2 years ago, I put my foot down and told him I was going to a sperm bank whether he liked it or not. Our marriage did not survive, and I never did get PG anyway.
Now, I am divorced, moved to Hawaii, and have met the most amazing man. We are officially TTC as of last week. He has 6 kids, 4 of which were conceived on the first attempt. Who knows, I may be one week PG now and he will have 5 conceived on the first attempt. Wouldn't that be crazy?
I believe that my circumstances just weren't right last time and the universe knew that. My marriage was rocky anyway, and my divorce would have been a lot more complicated with me PG or with a baby. But now, everything has changed and it's full steam ahead!
So, I am glad to be back and I am an open book. There are a lot of newbies on here that I don't know, as well as some old friends. Anything anyone wants to know, just ask! Baby dust to all!