This week, my 24yo sister told me that she had an abortion in July. It was chemical (pill-induced) and she was about 7 weeks along. She didn't tell me at the time, because mine is a very much wanted pregnancy and she thought it would upset me.
I was sad that she didn't feel she could tell me, and I explained to her that although I REALLY want this baby, I can separate my feelings from other people's feelings and I know that this was the best choice in her particular circumstances. I had a fleeting (unexpressed) feeling of sadness for my son's cousin who we'll never know, but mostly I was grateful that the choice was available to my sister.
Anyway, I'm not sure if there's anything there to comment on or debate, but I wanted to post about it and this seemed like the place.