....in another thread.
I know how big these threads get and things can get overlooked.
Here: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-psabortdeb/?msg=4864.415 
Now also, the pill and IUDS can be abortificants and that is another reason it is a no-no.
Now, do I always LOVE to abstain EVEN when I know it will be worth it morally and sex-wise with my husband when we can have it? no
but, I do what I have to for a good reason. It all works out well in the end :)>>
And here: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-psabortdeb/?msg=4864.417 
I asked: << Do you also not believe in sterilization of the man or woman? If they have a health condition that makes it dangerous to become pregnant? >>
I am curious to hear your answer to this. Thank you~