I have an 11 year old son that has just been informally diagnosed with ADD (full neuropsych eval scheduled for next month). I've been having tons of mommy guilt as to why didn't I figure this out earlier. He's forgetful, loses his HW all the time, his desk is a disaster (as is mine so I thought he was just following in my footsteps), impulsive...the whole shebang. I'm curious as to what advice you all have on parenting. It feels like this really changes everything in how we approach him.