And the dcb, he seems clingy of my son.Like if one of the neighbourhood kids asks ds to play basketball outside and C (dcb) doesn't want to and stays inside he pouts, At the playground ds tears around and C just kind of trails him and commontates. If ds goes on the swing, C follows. He says things like 'are we going on the swings now?' Ds sometimes turns down invites to play because he feels (I think) obligated to C. Dont get me wrong, C is a nice boy and they are good friends. Ds even said the other day "C looks so lonely if I don't play with him, like he's not having fun" and I told ds many times over, I am C's caregiver, not him and C is the one who makes his fun, ds is not responsible for him or for his fun. (did I mention, if it makes a difference, C is about 10-15 lbs overweight) I'm starting to ramble. Its just been a really long, loud day.