that I know they cannot afford. DD spent the night w/friend and the mom took the girls to Walmart. This family is barely getting by on 1 income, 4 kids, etc. The mom & I talked on the phone and she told me that dd didn't ask for this stuff and she bought the same things for her dd. I told her "you shouldn't have" etc. When dd came home and I saw how much stuff she got I feel bad knowing that they barely get by. Why would she do this? She said it was to make up for not getting her birthday or Christmas gifts (but she did get her gifts, maybe she forgot?) The Mom said she had extra money and wanted to do it but now I feel like the next time I take the girls I should reciprocate and that is not my style. I might buy a lipgloss or something but not as much as she got. How should I handle this and why do you think the mom did this in the first place? TIA for your replies.