My almost 11 year-old daughter is extremely stressed-out. She will take almost any situation and turn it into stress. Tests, quizzes are a nightmare, she won't eat breakfast on school days and she will drop into tears at the hint of a new situation. It seems like it is getting worse as she is getting older. I am a type-A personality and I am having trouble being sympathetic and understanding when she is building these things up in her mind by herself. She is starting to close doors for herself because of her nervousness and it is absolutely breaking my heart. She is such a great kid but the world will never know what she is capable of because she is too afraid to take a chance. HELP! How do you convince a child to take a chance and risk failure every now and then.????