Hi I am new to this post also, my kids are 10, 11, and 2. AAAHH! I had the most frustrating morning today. I am finding that the older two are starting to sneak things around the house. Cookies and snacks into backpacks, money from my change jar is missing, the bottle of gummy vitamins i bought three days ago is almost empty. And of course when I confronted them about it all they just lied to my face!!! I hate to think that they are stealing and lying to me. I"ve already had to ban them from going to the store down the street because I found that their friends were stealing from there. Any suggestions as to how to deal with this would be very appreciated.