i share custody of my 5 yr old DD with my ex.... so i am very careful HOW i discipline her! -- our DS is 2 1/2 yr old and my hubby and i spank him and do timeouts in his room...
DD gets so upset by this. she says she doesnt get spanked so why should DS???
she cried every time we put him on timeout and says "i want my brother!!"
i explained to her that i share her with her dad, so i have to deal with her differently than i would our other children... she is a smarty, but i am not sure she understands.