my DD is 5 1/2 yrs her b-day is in November ... she is very emotional, as she is tossed back and forth between her dad and i (we share custody) and when she doesn't get what she wants $h*t hits the fan. she cries and screams and throws a huge fit ... when does it end? she is out of control .... there are times that i have to give a cold shower to get her to calm down!! help!!