Hi! I was referred to this group and am a total newb when it comes to gender determination. Now that I have found the group tho, I intend to do alot more reading. However, I need an asnwer asap so forgive me for not searching around more first!

I am 41 and just had a baby in August. Because of my age, we are ttc again, hoping for a boy. I cannot really chart because the baby wakes up so much-sometimes like an hour before I am scheduled to wake, so I do not feel that charting temps would really be reliable.

I purchased an OV watch and started using it this month. I have also started Clomid this month. Today is my first "fertile day" according to the watch, meaning that Monday would be my OV day.

When would you recommend BD'ing in order to try for a boy? Monday? Sunday? Should I get an OPK or do I need to? Any other suggestions would be great.