My DS is 9 and was just diagnosed with ADHD. He also has a very high IQ and many of the social diagnostic factors of Asperger Syndrome (not enough to diagnose it--but many of the things I've read about it sound JUST like him). Never oppositional, just frustrated a lot. Has anxiety and depression.
How have your schools been supportive of educating your child(ren)? How have they let you down?