hi my name is crystal, yesterday was my youngest dd b-day she turned 5, yesterday we also was told she definitely had ADHD and quite possibly aspergers. my other dd who is 8 1/2 has ADHD so we have our hands pretty full. I've been having a lot of anxiety lately, esp after dd #2 decided not to come home from the bus stop 3 weeks ago and go play instead. I ended up at the urgent care yesterday getting something for anxiety. I am an RN so sometimes knowing so much medically isn't so go. I just need to vent to ppl who might understand and offer advice. I'm trying to pull it together but I guess I'm kinda grieving and worrying how we are gonna do this with 2 high maintenance girls. even though I already have been, knowing seems to make it worse. I just want to make sure they get all the support they can so they can lead productive happy lives as adults.