TYPICAL TRAITS TO LOOK FOR IN A VERBAL ABUSER: (9-1)


TYPICAL TRAITS TO LOOK FOR IN A VERBAL ABUSER:

1. irritable

2. likely to blame his mate for his outbursts or actions

3. unpredictable (you never know what will anger him)

4. angry

5. intense

6. unaccepting of his mate’s feelings and views

7. unexpressive of warmth and empathy

8. controlling

9. silent and uncommunicative in private or, frequently, demanding or argumentative

10. a "nice guy" to others


Thank You MizzLizzy!


Thank you for your advice in the chat room the other day. I told my niece that she needed to get her life back and what I thought she should do.

I hope she will take my advice and I'll let you know what happens. Thanks again!


Some VERY important advice to all of you, learn from my mistake please... ( 9-1)


Please read this very carefully, it is so important.

I had to give my depostion in my divorce yesterday. Three and a half hours of grueling questions by HIS lawyer. I filed almost a year ago, and we have been going around in circles ever since.


NOTE to the last posts that were archived...... ( 9-1)


I am the one who asked about abuse yesterday


question about abuse


cl-mizlizzy important info on KS hotline number.


Last Feb Ks added a new area code which incompasses Topeka. The area code on the number for Kansas coalition Against Sexual and Domestic Violence should be 785 not 913.

Just thought you might like to know.


he's so convincing.... 8-29


JUST WANT TO THANK MIZLIZZY (but I also miss VIGGY ) 8-29-99


PLEASE JOIN CMTEMON AND I FOR THE LIVE DOMESTIC ABUSE CHAT SUN. AUG 29 @6PM EST (8-29)


Please join us for live,instant feedback and support from a great group of people who truly care. Hope to see you there!

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