Hey I'm new here...(m)


Does anyone else do this????


Question to you lovely ladies about a weird subject...(m)


First, I had a long post typed up, then someone came into my office and I nervously hit the button to close ivillage! I'm going to make this one shorter.

I'm wondering what you define as pornographic and if you've had to deal with this in one way or another on your bf's or h's computer.


For the first time, I'm thinking of moving out (m)


Now, I know I will probably chicken out, because it's easier to not cause havok and live miserably than to deal with the chaos and b/s, but is it??

Normally, I try to get stbx to leave, because the house & utilities are in my name, I love my home and think it's a nice place to raise my son. But, I'm thinking of going home, packing a bag, and getting out.


I think i'm losing it...I think i'm losing myself.


Thank You


H has revealed *why* he hasn't hit me recently & why he's trying not to...


One more week and stbx's stuff will be GONE!


He came yesterday, with the OW and a police escort, to pick up some of his stuff. I was napping at the time.

He needs to come back with a truck to get the rest of it, plus he'll need to come downstairs and walk through to see if there's anything else here that he wants. I was hoping he'd come today and get it over with, but so far they haven't showed up.

I'm also a little bummed to look at the calendar and realize he's got until a week from Tuesday, not this Tuesday, to come.


Afternoon Blueshock , I want to thank you too for sharing..........m


and I'm so glad that you have a safe place to be. I'm sure it has taken lots of pressure off of you and your anxiety level should settle down and hopefully when that happens things will be easier for you to cope with. You deserve that break and take full advantage of it.

I look forward to posting w/u too.

I'm going to try to get to the chat this evening. Depends if dh is here or not.


Hello Piazza and thanks for sharing w/me...............m


In answer to your question, yes, the tapes are Lucinda Bassetts and to be honest, I can't really tell you if they have helped b/c I don't have access right now to a tape player and the only time I can listen is in the car.

Your situation sounds so much like mine with the anxiety, having your dh tell you how you are crazy, not knowing how much he brings this on. They know, theyjust don't care.

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