i have been with this man for nearly 8 years.we've naturally had our share of good times and bad but we got married in november in despite everything. i never really had too much of the newlywed excitement;it felt like just.....well like just the only thing that was new was my last name. everything was ordinary.actually things seem to have gotten worse after the marriage. i mean,its hard for me to get some quality time, arguments are more frequent,we had more sex,more exciting sex as a regular dating couple. he's no longer sensitive to my needs at all or sensitive to me as a person.
Who is the host of this board? And why is it just a bunch of 'rambling?' No offense, but I get so tired of finding African American boards that are full of silliness. Why not get this board together and do something positive with it. This is the RELATIONSHIPS section. Why is someone posting about a FUBU hairline? Is that all we care about? Hair, shoes, clothes??? WOW! I am so disappointed. Came here looking for some professional, educated postings from my sisters and found...the 'same ol' thing'.
Good evening ladies,

I was at Target today, and I saw FUBU's new line of black haircare products - I couldn't believe my eyes! They have a complete line from shampoo and conditioner to styling products and pomades. Has anyone seen or tried these? Do you think they would be a good product or is it just another gimmick to get our $$? They were between $4-$5 each. They come in a golden-colored plastic packaging; very easy to overlook b/c nothing jumps out at you. Since I bought Pantene last month, I am good for a while, but would like to know what you guys think.

You guys, there is this guy who attends my school who I am attracted to. He looks so good, he's an Iraqi or Iranian who speaks perfect English (but when he and his friend are talking about someone they start speaking Arabic) but the problem is he and I have never spoken to each other. I am really interested in him and find him SOOO attractive. How do I get up the nerve to go up to him and say something? He's always with his friend but I really like him. I don't think he has a girlfriend, at least I haven't seen him with a girl.
Actually I'm not sure if I need advice or just need to get this off my chest!

I'm 42 years old, in the process of a divorce and work in a hospital. I recently started this job and it's a brand new position. There is a doctor I come into contact with regularly who makes me feel like a damn teenager! He's from Nigeria but has been in my area for at least 8 years. Whenever we talk, he is so attentive and looks me dead in my eye as if he doesn't want to miss a thing I say. He has never said anything out of the way but has told me that I looked nice several times.

Morning ladies! Hope you had a great week!!!!!!!!!!! This week Milwaukee's been celebrating Harley Davidson's 100 years of great bikes! The big birthday bash is this weekend. Don't get me wrong....I LOVE to look at the bikes, but they're TOO noisy for me! Anyhoo....on to the five:

1. What's the best birthday bash you've attended? What made it so great?

2. Have you ever ridden in a motorcycle or a sidecar?

3. If you could live ANYWHERE other than the city you're in, what city would you choose? Why?

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Hi Ladies~
I have someone that I'm interesting in pursuing in a more further

relationship. My only problem is, I get very board,very easy. Okay, it's very confusing but let me try to explain....

I'm the type of person that loves to cuddle, loves walks, romantic dinners and

things like that. Okay, when we are not doing this, what else is there to do?

G..E..T.. your minds out of the gutter!!! Ha hahahahahahaa......

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