an "i can do it myself" woman or a "baby, come over and hang this picture for me" woman?

what's a woman to do? i'm independant, however men sometimes say if you're "too independant" they don't feel needed. if i try and show my soft side, guys start playing games. they assume i'm weak. i definately demand chivalry, however i'm not helpless and don't need a man to take care of me. what's a good median? how can i keep my independance without stepping on his toes?

I was wondering if it is safe to get touch-ups in the last trimester of pregnancy? And if not, how long after the birth do you have to wait before you can get a touch-up?
I'm going to college to study medicine and become a pediatrician. Because of my goals, my parents have thought that I'd would find love in an equally successful man. My father assuming that if I married anything less than a doctor I'd have to "take care of him" all my life. Yup, those were my father's words. The problem is that I'm not finding the attention I crave in successful men. They're not bums, they live alone, take care of themselves, no baby mommas, but they're not overachievers like I am either.
Who sent me this link? I'm sooo bad with remembering what I posted to, who replied to me, etc. It had something to do with me saying I'm into dancehall. I think it was the "what do you listen to in the bathtub post", but I can't find it here or on the AAB board. Well, it took me a while, but I fianlly checked out jouvay.com this past weekend. Whoever sent me this link, PLEASE hit me back! Thanks
Hey girl,

Just wanted to tell you that I took your advice - more protein, motivating dress, vitamins, etc. and I've lost five pounds. It looks like it should be more, because people have commented on my weight that didn't know I was doing anything differently. And, it's not even hard, that's the kicker. Woo, hoo. I can't wait for the health club to get back on a normal schedule, then I'll be revving it up some more! Thanks again, you really inspired me. Now if you can only give me some advice on how to regain my focus at work, then I'll be all set....

Ladies, you came, you saw, and you voted. The 1st Annual WOC/AAB Vacation 2004 is set to go to a wonderful spa retreat in Arizona.

Your hardworking WOC Vacation Committee will get you move details in the next coming days.

Good Morning WOC!
There is a guy in my Office that is very rude and annoying. I cannot stand him!!! He is the director of sales and he knows nothing.He only has a 12th grade and he doesnt work. The only reason he is there is because he is the boss' son in law.

I have sold more than he has since i've been here(7 months), got the company a million $ loan,etc.

the name came from an old job I had.An old old OLD job. I used to work for the Tower Corp. ( i.e Tower records,videos and books)-anyhoo, I must have opened this account while I was working there???

Anyways, when established the account I was not using it for 'posting'. I can't realy remember why I opened it, probably for the make-up and hair goddies they have in some of the other channels...

Since I now use it for a more 'personal' reason. Thought my name should reflect 'me.

(It was just WEIRD reading 'towerchick' and relating that to ME:)

I know that you guys may really despise me but I really do need your help!!!!!! You think I'm not listening but I am and it just upsets me that you all think that I'm not......okay enough with that here's the problem:

He's coming back! He and I also work together, if I failed to mention that. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO! Everyone says "no contact" which I have succeded in doing but I will be seeing him at work and there will be contact.

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