It's true what they say. "You can't love someone else until you love yourself, and you can't fully enjoy sex with someone else until you enjoy it with yourself!" Lipper says. She suggests upping your sexual ante this year by making a resolution to find something new that turns you on just for you. "It could be a Brazilian bikini wax, crotchless panties under a business suit, or a new “toy.” Enjoy your new source of pleasure and then see how it translates into even more pleasure with your man," she says.
And don't forget: "You are gorgeous and sexy and powerful and you have a beautiful womanly body and this guy is lucky to have an opportunity to see you in your birthday suit," Lipper adds. "Don’t you dare get self-conscious about your body! If you tell your man not to look at you or are only willing do it in a pitch-black room under the sheets, it's time to stop. You are hot and you have nothing to apologize for. Your man wants to have sex with you, and that means that he is attracted to you, so let it all go and let yourself enjoy the moment." Nothing is sexier than that.