Wish We'd Known: 21 Things No One Told Us About Having an Only Child

From the unexpected people who will judge you to the ease of date nights, here's what we wish we'd known about having an only child (22 Photos)

Beth Howard on Jan 28, 2013 at 9:48AM

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You May Raise a Perfectionist

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a Beth Howard on Jan 25, 2013 at 6:57PM

With two parents nurturing, encouraging and cheering their every achievement, only kids have an advantage when it comes to their motivation to achieve. There's nothing wrong with that in the right dose. But you want to be alert to an unhealthy level of perfectionism that can lead your child to expect more of herself than she can realistically manage. Resist the urge to suggest "improvements" to your child's homework project or outfit. If it's good enough, just let it go.

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