He Wants a Threesome, She's Not Sure
My fiance wants me to have a bisexual experience with him and another woman. I'm not sure if I mind, but the thought of him with another woman kind of upsets me. And where would I find a woman to join us? -- A
Question:Dear A:
You are embarking on a dangerous journey, so take heed. Despite the fact that, according to research, the No. 1 fantasy among heterosexual men is to have a sexual encounter with two women at the same time, this may not be your game. I suggest that you sit down with your fiance and ask him for specifics.
Does he want to see you performing sexually with another woman? Does he want to have sex with her while you watch? Does he expect the two of you touching each other while he penetrates you? What's his real fantasy here? Then you have to think about the boundaries you wish to set.
I get the sense that you are not sure about your own (bi)sexuality, but are willing to consider trying the experience. Watching him behave sexually with another woman may push your buttons, and could cause a negative reaction in your relationship. Before you leap into the fray, prepare yourself for the array of reactions you may have. You may find that this experience is pleasurable -- or disgusting.
To locate other women, check out the personals ads in your local papers and of course, surf the Net for newsgroups, chats or dating services that cater to your needs.
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