In the book He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truthto Understanding Guys, Sex and the City staffersGreg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo say there's no need to analyze malebehavior in dating. Their theory? A guy is interested or he's not
-- and if he is, there's no confusion. But is it soblack and white? Or do extenuating circumstances and legitimateexcuses exist? Read these two examples of Greg's take on stickyrelationship situations and share your opinion on whether theadvice is based on truth or just plain cynicism:
- The Age-Old "I'm Just Not Ready" Excuse
- The "Maybe He Doesn't Want to Ruin the Friendship" Excuse
Reprinted with permission from He's Just Not That into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys. Copyright © 2004 by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Used with permission from Simon Spotlight Entertainment, an imprint of Simon & Schuster.