His arousal aid is irritating me
Dear Dr. Patti:
My hubby uses a topical anesthetic to prolong the act. Is it advisable? Are there any ill effects of the same? I often feel dry, which causes me irritation during sex. Could this cream be the cause of it?
K
Dear K:
There are several topical creams and gels on the market today that are designed to help a man maintain his erection. They contain some of the typical ingredients that numb the skin. They can be bought in adult stores or from online catalogs that cater to the adult audience. I know that many men report having great success using these items to build their sexual confidence and enhance their sexual performance. By desensitizing the outside of the penis, topical anesthetics result in less physical excitement and can truly help a man to sustain his arousal.
You sound as if you may be having some irritation from the basic ingredients in the products. Perhaps it's time for him to consider other options. One is for him to use a condom once he has applied the cream or gel. Another is for him to seek medical intervention and try a medication such as Viagra. There are literally millions of prescriptions for this "miracle drug" being written across the country, since it does assist men in sustaining their erectile capability. There are also several alternative products available, such as Vigorex and Erogenex, homeopathic drugs available by mail order.
Finally, there are other devices for creating and sustaining erections that he can explore, such as vacuum pumps and self-injection methods. Or you just may not be aroused enough to stay wet. If so, try a vaginal lubricant during penetrative sex.
Dr. Patti
