Hot and Sexy Relationships: Expert Advice on How to Have One

British-born Tracey Cox is the author of the best-selling books Hot Sex: How to Do It and Hot Relationships and a guest Relationship Advisor at iVillage.

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QUESTION AND ANSWER: "I'm really in love with my boyfriend, but recently things have just gone a bit flat. I can't really describe what it is, but the spark is slightly fizzling out. We've been going out over a year now, so maybe it's normal. We feel really comfortable with each other and can talk about anything, but the mystery of early days has gone. Also I've put on weight recently, feeling podgy and slightly unsexy, which makes me worry that I've become complacent about myself. Any hot tips?" --from iVillager dianatia
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