Is hot sex worth it when he's married?

Q: I am in a relationship that I love, and it is getting hotter. But I can only see him on his terms, because he's married. We have been seeing each other for a year now, and I am having second thoughts. We email each other all the time, and he lets me know when I can see him. And here's the thing: We are having the best sex I have had in a long time. I want to keep on seeing him, but I'm confused.

A: Leave him -- NOW!!! Sorry, but I had to say that first up. A few facts: The guy is married. You've been having an affair for a year and he still hasn't left. He's not going to leave because right now he has the best of both worlds: the excitement of an affair with you and the security of marriage with his wife.

Stop wasting your time. Do yourself a favor and stop it now. You deserve better than putting up with someone else's leftovers. Of course the sex is good; it always is when it's forbidden.

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