Is hot sex worth it when he's married?

Sit down by yourself (or with a good friend) and work out why you let yourself become involved with a married guy in the first place. Is it because you're commitment-shy and this is a way of having a relationship but not having to commit? Is it because your self-esteem is low and you're putting up with being second best? Or was it simply a mistake -- you let your barriers down with someone you shouldn't have and got involved even though you knew it probably wouldn't get you anywhere? Whichever it is, only about 1 percent of men in this situation actually do leave their wives and end up with the person they were having an affair with. Please, get out now and get on with your life. You deserve so much better than this. Sorry if I'm harsh, but I truly don't want to see you get even more hurt.

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