How can I revive my relationship?

It sounds to me as if you have a strong foundation for a great relationship but have just stopped making enough effort, and you're both, quite simply, bored. Hence the weight gain -- you're probably snacking to add a bit of excitement to the day. But forget about the extra pounds (and I bet it's about two ounces -- it usually is) and instead focus on your relationship.

There's loads of stuff in Hot Sex to try on your holiday and lots of things in Hot Relationships to make both of you feel special. Really, though, it's not so much about specifics as about putting the energy back into each other that you did in the beginning. It will seem like an effort at the start -- because you know each other so well, it seems pointless. But if you do it and start making each other feel special again, some of that magic will come back. Promise! Let me know how you do, and don't you dare go on separate holidays.

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