How to Help Him Be Your Best Sex Ever

Help your man be the best lover that's ever slipped between your sheets! Take a tip from me—or several—and transform your love life right now.

It's a lot easier for women to please men in bed than it is for men to please women: There it is in black and white. As soon as we all accept this fact, we'll solve the highly unfair pleasure imbalance—namely, that he's getting more of it than we are! Women have a frustratingly complex sexual response system. Not only is it harder for us to orgasm (understatement of the millennium) and not only is our sex drive temperamental at best. But women also got double helpings of the self-blame and embarrassment gene. So we receive less pleasure, then we think it's our own fault! Sigh. If it wasn't for makeup and shoes, what would be the point?

But there is a bright side: It's all fixable! You can make dramatic improvements to the sexual scale without much effort by focusing on the following four areas:

Don't Leave Him in the Dark

Common sense should tell you that, if he doesn't look at your vagina and clitoris, he'll never know how to pleasure you properly. Most men are both curious and excited to look at your pink bits, but lots of women find it embarrassing. Keeping the lights low is just one of our tricks.

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