How to Try Tantric Sex in the Sack Tonight

Always been curious about Tantra? It's really not as hard or wacky as you think. Tantric sex is about intimacy rather than orgasm, mental rather than physical event. Once you can make this switch in focus, it'll change your sex life forever...no headstands required. Here, let us explain! (16 Photos)

Kimberly Dawn Neumann on Aug 13, 2012 at 5:17PM

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How to Try Tantric Sex in the Sack Tonight

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Calm Down

“The ‘hand on heart’ ritual begins almost every Tantra workshop or ritual -- it is centering and an easy way to bring one's emotional focus to oneself and to share that with one's partner,” says Carol Queen, PhD, a sex educator and staff sexologist for Good Vibrations. “The idea is to get both participants connected and ready to do any other practices that follow -- from having an important discussion to making love.” Instead of going straight into the action, try putting your right hands on each others' hearts and look into each others’ eyes before you begin getting erotic. It’s calming and intimate!

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