If you're adventurous, invite your partner or a trusted male friend to sit on a chair wearing a blindfold while you move around the room. Ask him to imagine that his hands are tied to the chair and tell him he cannot talk. The idea is for you to think of him as being confined and of yourself as being free to move around however you wish. Experience the feeling of being in control, of feeling superior. Remember, this is only play. If you would like to take this to the next step, remove your clothes and continue the exercise in the nude. Whether you decide to tell the blindfolded party that you are taking off your clothes is up to you. Just be sure he does not remove his blindfold.
The goal of these exercises is to take the feelings of confidence, control and sexiness you get from doing them out in the real world. Remember how you felt while performing these exercises, then recall that feeling the next time you enter a party, a conference room or your bedroom!
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