Increase Your Sex Appeal

Week 4: Interact to Attract

Whether you want to meet men or reignite the passion in your relationship, now is the time to go out and put to use all that you've learned in the past three weeks. The following exercises and directions will allow you to express your sex appeal and continue to increase your allure, whether you're out meeting men or seducing your partner.

Secrets to Successfully Meeting Men

  • Think about Sex
    When you are in the company of a man you want to meet, attract or excite, think about sex and how much you enjoy it. Don't express this enjoyment out loud. Thinking it will do the trick. Most men can tell if a woman enjoys sex by how she looks at him, speaks and moves. When you feel comfortable with your sexual side, you emanate sex appeal, often without even knowing it. Not only will this appeal to men, it will make you feel positive, sexy and strong.
  • Be Bold
    If you want to meet a new man, be daring in your approach. It's always better to be rejected than to feel bad because you didn't try. Approach 10 strangers and tell yourself ahead of time that you will fail 8 out of 10 times. Start with men you find attractive and who seem accessible. Hold off on approaching men who seem intimidating -- you can save them for after you've had some practice. When you see someone of interest, walk up to him and give him a compliment or say something that will intrigue him. For example, if you are at the theater or in an art gallery, tell him you noticed how caught up he was in the film, play or painting. Ask him what he was thinking, but don't be pushy. You want to seem free spirited when you approach him, not imposing. Most men will be flattered that you noticed them. If you want a man to make the first move, nothing works better than a brief look directly into his eyes. Look away, then smile a little so that he knows it's okay to approach you.
  • You should feel comfortable asking a man out at least half the time. When you are out on a date, offer to share the bill, or if he insists on paying, treat him the next time or get tickets for the theater and invite him to join you. The idea is to combine traditional feminine behavior (allowing the man to pay and so on) with independence and assertiveness. This combination is highly desirable.

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