Increase Your Sex Appeal

Step 2: Take Inventory of Who You Are

Increasing your sex appeal can help you in both your personal and professional lives. It can improve your chances of attracting a partner, inspire a more ardent response from your current mate, help you feel comfortable sexually and make you feel good about yourself. You'll be surprised at how many areas of your life are touched by sex appeal besides the most obvious -- the sexual arena.

Before we work on the packaging (how you appear to the world), let's take a look at the inside by beginning with a self-assessment. Standing in front of the mirror, write down what you see as objectively as possible. Take note of your expression and posture. Then make a list of all the things you like and dislike about yourself. Think about your physical appearance, and also your behavior. Look both at the qualities you have the ability to improve and those that cannot be changed. After all, sex appeal has very much to do with self-acceptance. While you may not be able to change the fact that you are a large-boned person, for example, you must accept your body type to truly increase your sex appeal.

To work toward self-acceptance, find some time -- alone, in a quiet, peaceful place -- to give loving thoughts to the parts of your face and body that you may not like.

It's normal not to like your nose or to want to improve the shape of your legs, but every part of you needs your love. To feel life fully and to be free to experience yourself sexually, it is essential to find the time and space to do this inner work. The most important part of sex appeal comes from what we express from the inside.

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