Now, on to your husband. You sound like you are definitely in a rut, not just in your marriage but in life in general. And you sound a little depressed, too, which is why you can't seem to motivate yourself to make the changes that would make you happier. But you need to force yourself to do at least one of these things to break out of it. If you do make yourself go the gym, lose weight or change jobs, it'll give you the emotional boost you need to snap you out of the boredom and get you back on track and working hard on getting the life you want, one that is more exciting. Your marriage and sex life aren't the only areas that need spicing up; work on spicing up all the areas in your life you're not happy with, and each will happily feed the others. If you start exercising, for instance, you've instantly got more energy to tackle the other problems. You'll feel better about your body, which will make you more adventurous and uninhibited in bed, and so on.
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