Just the Three of Us: Me, You and Porn

What's the Appeal?

However, according to Dr. Barry McCarthy, therapist and coauthor of Rekindling Desire, what makes women in porn so appealing to men is not their fake breasts and hairless nether regions. It's the fact that they're "crazy."

Wow, if what guys want is to be with someone who's crazy, my boyfriend is the luckiest man on earth.

Maybe Dr. McCarthy is onto something with this whole "crazy woman" notion. I have noticed that a lot of strip clubs are named things like Crazy Girls. Also, Angelina Jolie, who won an Oscar for playing a crazy girl in an insane asylum, is, according to a number of polls, considered to be the sexiest woman in America right now. Maybe crazy is the new hot?

Is it possible that the reason a man might think women in porn are crazy is because these women will do things like, say, have anonymous sex with pizza delivery boys? Then, allegedly, this porn-loving man further deduces that if a woman is crazy enough to do that, she might be just crazy enough to have sex with him '- and that's why she's attractive?

Or is it possible that Dr. McCarthy has overthought the whole topic and that, in fact, guys like the women in porn not because they seem crazy, but because they are naked and perfect and have giant, gravity-defying breasts?

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