The iconic Tom Cruise-Renee Zellweger lip-lock in the 1996 film "was all about a sensuous connection," says Rachel Venning, co-founder of the well-known sex-toy boutique Babeland and co-author of the new book Moregasm: Babeland's Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. Soft kissing and touching are key. When Zellweger says, "I think you should not come in," it's pretty clear that her words are saying "no" but her body is saying "yes!"
Her tip: Don't forget to kiss beyond the neck. Kiss the collarbones, earlobes and shoulders.