Kiss Your Way to Better Sex

Step 5: Oral Sex - Making It Better

Now that you have learned how to enhance the way you kiss -- and the way you are kissed -- on the lips and body, it's time to travel farther south and focus on the one aspect of lovemaking where great kissing can definitely make a difference.

There are several physical components to great oral sex, but none of them are as powerful as your mental attitude. The men in my seminars have continually told me that their best lovers have not had the best bodies, have not been the most beautiful nor had the largest respective body parts. Rather, their most seductive feature as lovers is that they've been enthusiastic about sex and "into" doing whatever it is with their partner. So, ladies, if you don't want to do this or any other thing, don't. Believe me, your partner will know if you are genuinely into it or just going through the motions.

Now that we are all on the same page, here are the goods. Women typically have two concerns about oral sex with their men: gagging and swallowing. I will address both issues and offer solutions, in addition to giving you the how-to's you need to make oral sex truly great for both you and your partner.

Men have said that it's a combination of three things that absolutely makes for entering a woman during intercourse -- heat, pressure and moisture. So in essence, you will be creating these same factors with your hands and mouth. In fact, you will be creating even better sensations with your hands and mouth than with another area of your anatomy, because they are much more versatile.

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