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12 Ways to Have Lazy Sex (That's Still Really Hot)

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Kate Winick on May 30, 2012 at 4:23PM

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12 Ways to Have Lazy Sex (That's Still Really Hot)

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How to Have Super Hot (but Super Lazy) Sex

We know you’ve got moves in the bedroom…the problem is, they require energy. Whether you’re sleep-deprived or just plain feeling lazy, there are days when you don’t really want to get busy -- but your better half does, and you know he’s not going away anytime soon. (Remember Miranda’s “let’s just get it over with!” comment to Steve from Sex and the City? Not that you’d ever actually say that, but you can relate, right?) We asked sex and relationship experts to how to get intimate without getting acrobatic. Lazy girls, take note!

Masturbate Together
Mutual masturbation is the perfect lazy-sex choice: you’re both guaranteed to get off exactly how you want, and you can go on from there or call it a night. “Propose it to your partner by telling them it turns you on to watch him, just like he likes watching you,” says Lori Buckley, a relationship and sex therapist. Then get comfortable -- angle your bodies away so your hands are free and you’ve both got a good view (but feel free to rub legs or touch with your free hands to feel close to each other) or spread your legs in front of him and rest your head on a few pillows so you can enjoy watching his reactions.