Maid/Matron of Honor Duties
Dear Wedding Women:
I've been asked to be my sister's Maid of Honor and would greatly appreciate any information on the duties and what is expected, whether traditional or not. Thanks again in advance!
Carona
Dear Carona,
How nice that your sister has asked you to be her maid of honor. If your sister has not discussed her expectations with you, you may want to bring up the subject. It's entirely appropriate to ask this sort of thing -- there's no point in attempting to help the bride if you don't know what she needs help with!
Traditionally, the maid or matron of honor is responsible for a bit more than the other female attendants. But all of the female attendants share some responsibilities, such as paying for their wedding attire (a.k.a. whatever the bride wants them to wear) and helping the bride stay calm, cool and collected before and on her big day. In addition, the maid or matron of honor is traditionally in charge of throwing the bridal shower, although nowadays the bridesmaids and/or other relatives often pitch in or take charge. The maid or matron of honor is also responsible for helping the bride get dressed on her wedding day and holding the bride's bouquet and gloves during the ceremony (and sometimes the groom's ring, too).
Your sister may also want you to give a toast at her reception. We hope you enjoy helping your sister plan and prepare for her special day. She's lucky to have a sister who cares so much about helping her!
The Wedding Women
