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Don't Settle! Make Him Better in Bed -- Tonight!

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Stacey Stapleton and Michelle Menner on Jul 1, 2011 at 1:04PM

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Don't Settle! Make Him Better in Bed -- Tonight!

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Get Out Of Your Sex-On-A-Schedule Routine

Feel like sex always happens at the exact same time every week? If 9 a.m. Saturday romps don’t mesh with your schedule, reset his clock with a simple game. Tell him playfully that you’re not having sex in the morning, but you’ll be ready and willing at ANY other time of the day. Men are competitive by nature, so he’ll be dying to prove that he can wait and get creative. “It’s also important not to reject your partner outright,” says Wyatt. So instead of simply saying no, offer some steamy coming attractions. “Say something like, ‘I’m not feeling particularly sexy right now, but how about we put the kids to bed earlier tomorrow and shower together?’” says Wyatt, “the key is to reschedule, not reject.”