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Don't Settle! Make Him Better in Bed -- Tonight!

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Stacey Stapleton and Michelle Menner on Jul 1, 2011 at 1:04PM

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Don't Settle! Make Him Better in Bed -- Tonight!

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Slow Down, Cowboy

Has a quickie before shut-eye become the norm? “We’re all hyper-scheduled these days, which isn’t conducive to slowing down and enjoying life’s greatest pleasures,” says Wyatt. If your guy tends to be a speed demon, resist the urge to tell him to slow down and instead show him: If, he’s flying through foreplay, Wyatt suggests pulling away playfully for a few seconds -- if he speeds up, again, pull away again -- do it as many times as you have to -- he’ll get the hint! And as unsexy as it sounds, scheduling time for sex can also help your man relax and stop racing for the finish line. “Plan an hour of alone time in the morning before the kids wake up,” says Wyatt, “shower together and let nature take its course.”