Make the nanny-parent relationship work for you

 

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The relationship between a parent and the nanny is so much more than an employer-employee dynamic; after all, searching for another nanny is like searching for another you. Two new books, "And Nanny Makes Three" and "The Perfect Stranger," look at both sides of the often complicated nanny-parent relationship. We asked iVillage babysitting expert Genevieve Thiers, CEO of Sittercity, for her take on what the authors wrote. Read the excerpts to see if you agree and click through 10 signs that your nanny is not a good fit.

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