Meltdown in Aisle 3! From Time-Outs to Talk-It-Outs, 19 Proven Ways to Stop Temper Tantrums

Few things can make you feel more helpless as a parent than facing a kid having a full-scale meltdown. To help, here are 19 smart ways to stop a tantrum -- one of them is bound to work (20 Photos)

Jenna McCarthy and Sally Farhat Kassab on Oct 2, 2012 at 2:29PM

chime in now
 
Master the Preemptive Strike

Peter Dazeley/Riser/Getty Images

a Jenna McCarthy and Sally Farhat Kassab on Sep 23, 2012 at 2:38PM

What to Know: As the saying goes, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. It's far easier to head off a tantrum than to try to stop one once it starts.

What to Do:
Make a point of talking about your expectations before you find yourself in a tantrum-provoking situation. If your child tends to lose it in the grocery store when he sees the candy in the check-out aisle, remind him before you even get out of the car that candy is out of the question, says board certified behavior analyst Kelly Sheehan, M.Ed. Keep your words simple and clear: "We cannot buy candy today, but we have crackers in the car for snack." Bring it up again in the store just before you hit that candy display. "Remember, honey, we have crackers in the car. No candy today." Setting clear expectations will help limit requests for items that he can't have, Sheehan adds.

Next Up: How to Raise a "Spirited" (Or, Um, "Difficult") Child
starts in 3 seconds
    Loading slides...
Best of the Web
Connect with Us
Follow Our Pins

Yummy recipes, DIY projects, home decor, fashion and more curated by iVillage staffers.

Follow Our Tweets

The very dirty truth about fashion internships... DUN DUN @srslytheshow http://t.co/wfewf

On Instagram

Behind-the-scenes pics from iVillage.