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What Your Guy’s Sex Style Says About Him

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Sally Schultheiss on Dec 29, 2010 at 1:54PM

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What Does Your Guy's Sex Style Say About Him?

Some guys are shy, some are forward and they all like something a little different between the sheets. Tapping into your man’s unique “sex style” can take sex from nice to something he'll be blushing about for weeks. Tammy Nelson, psychotherapist and author of Getting the Sex You Want: Shed Your Inhibitions and Reach New Heights of Passion Together shares some of the most common types, while Los Angeles-based sex therapist Christine Milrod advises on how to please each one.

The Transcendent Style
Always searching for that existential moment, he wants his partner to take him to another plane of consciousness. This guy doesn’t just want sex, he wants it to have him. Sound like a tall order? If you can fill it, he’ll reward you with eye-gazing, an introduction to tantric sex, synchronized breathing and loads of groovy spiritual energy.

Expert Sex Tip: Try this tantric trick: Put his penis in your vagina and then lay perfectly still. “This way you get into it very slowly and you can focus on the feeling,” says Nelson. “Or what I call the MSC -- maximum skin contact.”