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Miscarriage: Should I Have Treatment to Complete a Miscarriage?

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Get the facts

Your options

Wait to see if your body completes the miscarriage on its own.
Take medicine to complete the miscarriage.
Have surgery to complete the miscarriage.

Key points to remember

There is no treatment that can stop a miscarriage after it has started. The goal of treatment is to prevent an infection and the loss of too much blood. These problems are most likely to occur when the uterus does not completely empty. (This is called an incomplete miscarriage.)
For many women, the body completes the miscarriage on its own. If you decide not to treat your miscarriage, see your doctor. He or she will watch you closely during the time you wait for the miscarriage to complete.
If you have heavy bleeding or infection during a miscarriage, you will likely need surgery—dilation and curettage (D&C) or vacuum aspiration—to empty your uterus.
Medicine makes the uterus squeeze and empty. Medicine takes longer than a procedure to empty your uterus, and it can cause pain and side effects.
Surgery has risks, including infection and a possible hole (puncture) or scarring in the uterus.
Using medicine or waiting for the uterus to empty on its own doesn't always work. If medicine, waiting, or both don't empty the uterus after several weeks, you may need surgery.

FAQs

What is a miscarriage?

A miscarriage is the loss of a pregnancy during the first 20 weeks. (After 20 weeks, pregnancy loss is known as a stillbirth.)

The risk of miscarriage increases as a woman ages. See a table that shows how miscarriage risk increases.

The loss of a pregnancy can be very hard to accept. You may wonder why it happened or blame yourself. But a miscarriage is no one’s fault. You can't prevent it.

Common signs of a miscarriage can include:

Vaginal bleeding.
Pain in the belly, lower back, or pelvis.
Passing fetal tissue from the vagina.

Bleeding may be light or heavy, and it may be constant or come and go. It can sometimes be hard to know if light bleeding is a sign of miscarriage. But if you have pain along with bleeding, the chance of a miscarriage is high.

What should you do if you are or might be miscarrying?

Call your doctor or nurse-midwife right away if you have symptoms of a miscarriage. Getting medical advice and care can lower your chance of any problems from the miscarriage. Your doctor or nurse-midwife will check to see if you:

Might be losing too much blood or getting an infection.
Could have an ectopic pregnancy, which can be deadly. You may need emergency surgery to remove the embryo or fetus.
Are at risk of Rh sensitization, which may be dangerous to a fetus in your next pregnancy. If your blood type is Rh-negative, you will probably need treatment. For more information, see the topic Rh Sensitization During Pregnancy.

How is a miscarriage treated?

There is no treatment to stop a miscarriage. For many women, the body completes the miscarriage on its own. There are several treatments to help complete a miscarriage. Depending on your condition, you may be able to choose:

Watchful waiting (known as expectant management), which means that you see your doctor and he or she watches you closely during the time you wait for the miscarriage to complete on its own.
Medicine to complete the miscarriage, known as medical management.
Surgical treatment with dilation and curettage (D&C) or vacuum aspiration to complete the miscarriage.

If your doctor or nurse-midwife is sure that your first-trimester or early second-trimester miscarriage is complete and all tissue has passed from your uterus, the bleeding is likely to taper off within about a week. Unless you have a fever or heavy bleeding, you will not need treatment. But your doctor or nurse-midwife may want to see you sometime during the next month.

Compare your options

Compare


What is usually involved?
What are the benefits?
What are the risks and side effects?

Take medicine Take medicine

You take pills that empty your uterus.
You can be at home.
After several hours, you will have bleeding and cramps as the medicine starts to work. The miscarriage may take days or weeks to end.

It completes a miscarriage more quickly than waiting.
You don't have the risks of surgery or anesthesia.

It causes cramping and bleeding. You may have more cramping than if the miscarriage ended on its own.
It doesn't work as well for second-trimester miscarriages.
It can cause side effects such as:
- Pain.
- Nausea.
- Vomiting.
- Diarrhea.
You still may need surgery if the medicine doesn't complete the miscarriage.

Have surgery Have surgery

You have general or local anesthesia.
You have a dilation and curettage or vacuum aspiration. The doctor opens the cervix and removes tissue from the uterus.

It’s the quickest way to complete a miscarriage.
You could have less bleeding than with medicine or no treatment.

You may have pain (but for a shorter time than with medicine).
Possible risks include:
- A reaction to the anesthesia.
- An infection.
- A hole (puncture) or scarring in the uterus.

Have no treatment Have no treatment

You talk to your doctor to see if it’s okay to wait for the miscarriage to end on its own.
You can be at home.
It could take days or weeks for the miscarriage to end.
You see your doctor to make sure that the miscarriage is over.

You don't have the risks of medicine or surgery.

You may have to wait weeks for the bleeding to end.
You still may need medicine or surgery if the miscarriage doesn't complete on its own.

Personal stories

Are you interested in what others decided to do? Many people have faced this decision. These personal stories may help you decide.

Personal stories about miscarriage treatment

These stories are based on information gathered from health professionals and consumers. They may be helpful as you make important health decisions.

When I learned that I was having a miscarriage, I couldn't bear the thought of it. I knew right away that I needed to get through the physical process of the miscarriage as quickly as possible. This way, I could begin to emotionally cope with my loss, rather than suffering through the extra days of waiting for the miscarriage to end. I asked my doctor to do a D&C right away.

Claire, age 26

I actually didn't have a choice about having a D&C when I miscarried because I was bleeding so heavily. I think that I would have chosen to let my body miscarry on its own, but my nurse-midwife said that this was an urgent situation. I'm just grateful that I came through it as well as I did.

Lucero, age 38

It was late in my first trimester when my doctor told me that I had started a miscarriage, probably a couple of weeks before. She said that this is called an "incomplete miscarriage," and that I had some choices. I could wait a little longer for bleeding to start, I could have a D&C, or I could take a medicine that would make the miscarriage progress. Either way, I'd have to have an Rh immunoglobulin injection, because my blood is Rh-negative. I can't stand the idea of surgery, and I felt I had to do something, so I chose the medicine. While I was taking it, I felt miserable. I had stomach pain and nausea. My husband had to take care of me for a few days. The treatment worked, and after I bled for a couple of weeks, the miscarriage was done. I also saw a counselor a few times. She really helped me out with recovering emotionally from my miscarriage.

Dao, age 28

My doctor is experienced with using medicine to treat miscarriage. And as a nurse, I'm familiar with the drugs used. So I felt comfortable with choosing this kind of treatment for ending a miscarriage.

Jennifer, age 36

When I began to bleed during my 10th week, I went in to see my obstetrician. She examined me and told me that I might be miscarrying, but we'd have to wait to see for sure. That was a terrible time. A couple of days later, it was clear that I was miscarrying, because I was passing some tissue. My doctor told me that I could have a D&C or let the miscarriage happen on its own. I decided that the natural course of things was best for me. After a couple of weeks, the bleeding tapered off. It took me a while before I was ready to try to get pregnant again, and I met with a counselor to help me get through those first few months. I think it helped me, though, to have gone through the slower process of physically and emotionally losing the pregnancy.

Renna, age 30

When my doctor told me that I was miscarrying, I told him that I really didn't want a D&C. He agreed, saying that he prefers a "watch and wait" approach with a miscarriage. He said that he hardly ever uses surgery or medicine to treat a miscarriage anymore—only if it's requested or if there are complications. I did have to have an Rh immunoglobulin injection because I'm Rh-negative and the fetus could have been Rh-positive. Well, unfortunately, a day later, I started to bleed heavily. I went right in to get checked, and my doctor said that I was going to lose too much blood if he didn't do a D&C. After the D&C, I had light bleeding for a week or so, which apparently is normal.

Anna, age 35

If you need more information, see the topic Miscarriage.

What matters most to you?

Your personal feelings are just as important as the medical facts. Think about what matters most to you in this decision, and show how you feel about the following statements.

I would rather take medicine or have surgery than wait for the miscarriage to end on its own.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

I want to avoid surgery if I can.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

I would rather wait and let nature takes its course.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

I’m concerned about the pain and side effects from medicine or surgery.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

It would be harder for me emotionally to wait for the miscarriage to end on its own.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

My other important reasons:

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

Where are you leaning now?

Now that you've thought about the facts and your feelings, you may have a general idea of where you stand on this decision. Show which way you are leaning right now.

Taking medicine

NOT taking medicine

Leaning toward

Undecided

Leaning toward

Having surgery

NOT having surgery

Leaning toward

Undecided

Leaning toward

Waiting for the miscarriage to end

NOT waiting

Leaning toward

Undecided

Leaning toward

Your summary

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Author	Healthwise Staff
Primary Medical Reviewer	Sarah Marshall, MD - Family Medicine
Specialist Medical Reviewer	Femi Olatunbosun, MB, FRCSC - Obstetrics and Gynecology

Miscarriage: Should I Have Treatment to Complete a Miscarriage?

You can use it to talk with your doctor or loved ones about your decision.

Get the facts
Compare your options
What matters most to you?
Where are you leaning now?
What else do you need to make your decision?

1. Get the Facts

Your options

Wait to see if your body completes the miscarriage on its own.
Take medicine to complete the miscarriage.
Have surgery to complete the miscarriage.

Key points to remember

There is no treatment that can stop a miscarriage after it has started. The goal of treatment is to prevent an infection and the loss of too much blood. These problems are most likely to occur when the uterus does not completely empty. (This is called an incomplete miscarriage.)
For many women, the body completes the miscarriage on its own. If you decide not to treat your miscarriage, see your doctor. He or she will watch you closely during the time you wait for the miscarriage to complete.
If you have heavy bleeding or infection during a miscarriage, you will likely need surgery—dilation and curettage (D&C) or vacuum aspiration—to empty your uterus.
Medicine makes the uterus squeeze and empty. Medicine takes longer than a procedure to empty your uterus, and it can cause pain and side effects.
Surgery has risks, including infection and a possible hole (puncture) or scarring in the uterus.
Using medicine or waiting for the uterus to empty on its own doesn't always work. If medicine, waiting, or both don't empty the uterus after several weeks, you may need surgery.

FAQs

What is a miscarriage?

A miscarriage is the loss of a pregnancy during the first 20 weeks. (After 20 weeks, pregnancy loss is known as a stillbirth.)

The risk of miscarriage increases as a woman ages. See a table that shows how miscarriage risk increases .

The loss of a pregnancy can be very hard to accept. You may wonder why it happened or blame yourself. But a miscarriage is no one’s fault. You can't prevent it.

Common signs of a miscarriage can include:

Vaginal bleeding.
Pain in the belly, lower back, or pelvis.
Passing fetal tissue from the vagina.

Bleeding may be light or heavy, and it may be constant or come and go. It can sometimes be hard to know if light bleeding is a sign of miscarriage. But if you have pain along with bleeding, the chance of a miscarriage is high.

What should you do if you are or might be miscarrying?

Call your doctor or nurse-midwife right away if you have symptoms of a miscarriage. Getting medical advice and care can lower your chance of any problems from the miscarriage. Your doctor or nurse-midwife will check to see if you:

Might be losing too much blood or getting an infection.
Could have an ectopic pregnancy, which can be deadly. You may need emergency surgery to remove the embryo or fetus.
Are at risk of Rh sensitization, which may be dangerous to a fetus in your next pregnancy. If your blood type is Rh-negative, you will probably need treatment. For more information, see the topic Rh Sensitization During Pregnancy.

How is a miscarriage treated?

There is no treatment to stop a miscarriage. For many women, the body completes the miscarriage on its own. There are several treatments to help complete a miscarriage. Depending on your condition, you may be able to choose:

Watchful waiting (known as expectant management), which means that you see your doctor and he or she watches you closely during the time you wait for the miscarriage to complete on its own.
Medicine to complete the miscarriage, known as medical management.
Surgical treatment with dilation and curettage (D&C) or vacuum aspiration to complete the miscarriage.

If your doctor or nurse-midwife is sure that your first-trimester or early second-trimester miscarriage is complete and all tissue has passed from your uterus, the bleeding is likely to taper off within about a week. Unless you have a fever or heavy bleeding, you will not need treatment. But your doctor or nurse-midwife may want to see you sometime during the next month.

2. Compare your options

	Take medicine	Have surgery
What is usually involved?	You take pills that empty your uterus. You can be at home. After several hours, you will have bleeding and cramps as the medicine starts to work. The miscarriage may take days or weeks to end.	You have general or local anesthesia. You have a dilation and curettage or vacuum aspiration. The doctor opens the cervix and removes tissue from the uterus.
What are the benefits?	It completes a miscarriage more quickly than waiting. You don't have the risks of surgery or anesthesia.	It’s the quickest way to complete a miscarriage. You could have less bleeding than with medicine or no treatment.
What are the risks and side effects?	It causes cramping and bleeding. You may have more cramping than if the miscarriage ended on its own. It doesn't work as well for second-trimester miscarriages. It can cause side effects such as: Pain. Nausea. Vomiting. Diarrhea. You still may need surgery if the medicine doesn't complete the miscarriage.	You may have pain (but for a shorter time than with medicine). Possible risks include: A reaction to the anesthesia. An infection. A hole (puncture) or scarring in the uterus.
	Have no treatment
What is usually involved?	You talk to your doctor to see if it’s okay to wait for the miscarriage to end on its own. You can be at home. It could take days or weeks for the miscarriage to end. You see your doctor to make sure that the miscarriage is over.
What are the benefits?	You don't have the risks of medicine or surgery.
What are the risks and side effects?	You may have to wait weeks for the bleeding to end. You still may need medicine or surgery if the miscarriage doesn't complete on its own.

Personal stories

Are you interested in what others decided to do? Many people have faced this decision. These personal stories may help you decide.

If you need more information, see the topic Miscarriage.

Personal stories about miscarriage treatment

These stories are based on information gathered from health professionals and consumers. They may be helpful as you make important health decisions.

"When I learned that I was having a miscarriage, I couldn't bear the thought of it. I knew right away that I needed to get through the physical process of the miscarriage as quickly as possible. This way, I could begin to emotionally cope with my loss, rather than suffering through the extra days of waiting for the miscarriage to end. I asked my doctor to do a D&C right away."

— Claire, age 26

"I actually didn't have a choice about having a D&C when I miscarried because I was bleeding so heavily. I think that I would have chosen to let my body miscarry on its own, but my nurse-midwife said that this was an urgent situation. I'm just grateful that I came through it as well as I did."

— Lucero, age 38

"It was late in my first trimester when my doctor told me that I had started a miscarriage, probably a couple of weeks before. She said that this is called an "incomplete miscarriage," and that I had some choices. I could wait a little longer for bleeding to start, I could have a D&C, or I could take a medicine that would make the miscarriage progress. Either way, I'd have to have an Rh immunoglobulin injection, because my blood is Rh-negative. I can't stand the idea of surgery, and I felt I had to do something, so I chose the medicine. While I was taking it, I felt miserable. I had stomach pain and nausea. My husband had to take care of me for a few days. The treatment worked, and after I bled for a couple of weeks, the miscarriage was done. I also saw a counselor a few times. She really helped me out with recovering emotionally from my miscarriage."

— Dao, age 28

"My doctor is experienced with using medicine to treat miscarriage. And as a nurse, I'm familiar with the drugs used. So I felt comfortable with choosing this kind of treatment for ending a miscarriage."

— Jennifer, age 36

"When I began to bleed during my 10th week, I went in to see my obstetrician. She examined me and told me that I might be miscarrying, but we'd have to wait to see for sure. That was a terrible time. A couple of days later, it was clear that I was miscarrying, because I was passing some tissue. My doctor told me that I could have a D&C or let the miscarriage happen on its own. I decided that the natural course of things was best for me. After a couple of weeks, the bleeding tapered off. It took me a while before I was ready to try to get pregnant again, and I met with a counselor to help me get through those first few months. I think it helped me, though, to have gone through the slower process of physically and emotionally losing the pregnancy."

— Renna, age 30

"When my doctor told me that I was miscarrying, I told him that I really didn't want a D&C. He agreed, saying that he prefers a "watch and wait" approach with a miscarriage. He said that he hardly ever uses surgery or medicine to treat a miscarriage anymore—only if it's requested or if there are complications. I did have to have an Rh immunoglobulin injection because I'm Rh-negative and the fetus could have been Rh-positive. Well, unfortunately, a day later, I started to bleed heavily. I went right in to get checked, and my doctor said that I was going to lose too much blood if he didn't do a D&C. After the D&C, I had light bleeding for a week or so, which apparently is normal."

— Anna, age 35

3. What matters most to you?

Your personal feelings are just as important as the medical facts. Think about what matters most to you in this decision, and show how you feel about the following statements.

I would rather take medicine or have surgery than wait for the miscarriage to end on its own.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

I want to avoid surgery if I can.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

I would rather wait and let nature takes its course.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

I’m concerned about the pain and side effects from medicine or surgery.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

It would be harder for me emotionally to wait for the miscarriage to end on its own.

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

My other important reasons:

Not important

Somewhat important

Very important

4. Where are you leaning now?

Now that you've thought about the facts and your feelings, you may have a general idea of where you stand on this decision. Show which way you are leaning right now.

Taking medicine

NOT taking medicine

Leaning toward

Undecided

Leaning toward

Having surgery

NOT having surgery

Leaning toward

Undecided

Leaning toward

Waiting for the miscarriage to end

NOT waiting

Leaning toward

Undecided

Leaning toward

Credits

Author	Healthwise Staff
Primary Medical Reviewer	Sarah Marshall, MD - Family Medicine
Specialist Medical Reviewer	Femi Olatunbosun, MB, FRCSC - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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Last Updated:April 18, 2011

Author:Healthwise Staff

Medical Review:Sarah Marshall, MD - Family Medicine & Femi Olatunbosun, MB, FRCSC - Obstetrics and Gynecology

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