Mouth Magic

Worship-Worthy Oral Sex Secrets

In her book Orgasms: How to Have Them, Give Them and Keep Them Coming, Lou Paget offers her best man-melting oral sex secrets. But we must warn you: Her advice may cause your guy to act strangely. He may do the dishes unprompted. He may pick up your dry cleaning. You might even catch him staring at you all googly-eyed while you're minding your own business watching TV. Think you can handle that? If so, put your vixen hat on and start taking naughty notes.

There are four main components that combine to create great oral sex. Like dancing, sometimes you put all the steps together in one move and other times you slow down the pace, but more than likely you are constantly varying your moves to the beat and according to how you feel at the moment.

It won't take long to discover that the secret to giving great oral sex is to find your "rhythm," and that rhythm, as in dancing, can and will change with each partner, depending on his specific likes and dislikes. What will ensure your success with every encounter is to remember the four different motions you use whenever performing oral sex. When and how you use them will depend on your rhythm, but the motions themselves are always the same. And FYI, the more manual you do on him the less time the oral is likely to take.

  • You seal your hand to your mouth in the ring shape. Or, if you want just use your mouth, but it will be more tiring.
  • Your mouth (with teeth covered) is moving up and down his shaft to increase length of the stimulation area for him.
  • Your tongue is always moving in a back-and-forth or circular motion across the frenulum area, which is the V-shaped notch at the back of the head of the penis. This allows him to feel the more textured tastebud surface throughout the experience.
  • Your free hand is stimulating another part of his body, such as the nipples, inner thighs, perineal area or anus, in order to broaden the area of sensual pleasure.
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